Veterinarians are often questioned concerning the behavior of family pets. I have shared my home(s) with six dogs, from puppy through senility. Usually there have been well thought-out decisions concerning when to get a dog: what breed would best thrive within the confines of my changing family; how best do we train the pup and associated humans (given their age-related skill sets); my children have left to practice adulthood; schedules are mostly cleared of school events; the remaining dog was increasingly deaf, senile, and lonely. I fell into an opportunity…

I tell friends that I have a new German exercise buddy who is shepherding me to better health. My new friend is a 16-month-old, large, male, fluffy German Shepherd from a very conscientious breeder. He was recently returned because one member of his two-person family passed away, and a mature dog bullied him mercilessly. The previous owner wishes to remain anonymous and declines contact. It has been intriguing to try and figure out what this dog does and doesn’t know.

House training was solid (Praise Be!). Crate training was reasonable. Respecting humans definitely needed work. Response to his name was initially negligible. Treats are not really very exciting, praise is more rewarding. Understandably, he aggressively responds to other dogs trying to push him around. He told me that “STAY” was completely irrelevant, but a firmer tone reminded him that his health record mentioned a board and training session. The working definition of “He dogged the cat” is acted out daily, and said cat has started encouraging the sessions… a basis for eventual friendship? Training to accept urgent, necessary grooming, while shedding heavily, is interesting. Realizing what HE thinks may be an appropriate chew toy can be surprising. The biggest challenge is convincing him that his belief in “Look Visitors, so NO RULES!” is the antithesis of the desired behavior. Watching his reactions leads me to deductions concerning his previous life.

I’m gratified by the depressed introvert’s gradual discovery that life can be fun, that feeling like a good dog is rewarding, and that behaving in a socially acceptable manner can expand one’s horizons. He has reminded me of the joy that young, fit dogs and people share on routine walks, regardless of the weather. My physician is now proud of my daily step count. Exercise has become a personal need rather than an unwelcome obligation.

The age, breed, size, abundance of hormones, and exceptional amount of coat have all added to my challenges with this particular dog. The 24/7 problem-solving has definitely increased my empathy towards rescue owners. So many wonderful people adopt mature dogs, inviting them into their homes and coping with difficulties. I am so grateful for all of the hard work that goes into your pets. Know that you are not alone. Veterinarians, their staff, local dog trainers, and a variety of medications can all help address problems.